as we begin No Shave November, I’d like to remind any women participating that if a man tells you you’re not fuckable/desirable/beautiful with body hair that he is a really silly jerk who should shush, that body hair is natural regardless of your gender, and that men don’t have to want to fuck you in order for you to be beautiful, awesome, valid, etc.. beauty is not defined by the male gaze. beauty can be hairy or hairless. beauty is whatever you are.
It’s mind blowing to me that there are girls and women who are like this, but at the same time I’m not surprise. In a society like ours that objectifies women so completely it’s no wonder that there are women and girls who have internalized that.